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 					understanding - i want to try to understand rather than push away, i do not wish to live in fear of what i do not understand
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-					advocate - though i fear conflict, i will stand up for myself and others when i feel it is best to, especially when i feel someone is afraid to stand up for themselves
+					helpful - i love helping others just as much as learning from them. i feel my purpose in life is to be a helper
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 					courageous - i have navigated life in times of happienss, in times of sadness, in times of hardship. my intutition tells me to push forward
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 					lost - though i may paint a sad picture here, i know where i am headed, i know what i must do to change parts of this page. with time, i know this will happen. i deserve this
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-			<p>this page was last updated on - Dec 1st, 2024</p>
+			<p>this page was last updated on - Dec 11th, 2024</p>
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